No More Playing Small: Step Into the Leader Your Vision Requires
“What area of your business or leadership are you still shrinking in—even though you’ve outgrown the small version of yourself?”
Let’s be honest…
Are you scared to do something new?
Scared to dream bigger?
Scared to grow your business?
Or maybe you’ve convinced yourself that “I don’t want to get too rich,” or “I’m fine keeping it small,” or “If I try, the system will change the rules on me, anyways.”
Let me tell you a couple of stories.
🗣 "I don't want to grow too big."
One day, I was reflecting on my business growth and the amount of work it took to reach $1 million in revenue, and I said to myself,
“I love being my own boss, but I’m okay with keeping my business small.”
All of a sudden, I reminded myself and said,
“If you’re not growing, you’re slowly dying.”
What my first line of thinking was really saying was:
“I don’t want to leave my comfort zone.”
“I don’t want to risk failing.”
“I’m afraid of what else growth might require of me.”
"I'm too weak to do more than I already do."
I probably wouldn’t say those words out loud... but that’s the truth.
And it’s not just untrue—it’s dangerous.
Because when you consciously reject growth, you unconsciously choose decline.
It’s harder to prevent growth than to pursue it. Growth is the natural order of life.
Trying to stay small is a bigger risk than choosing to expand.
💡 The “I don’t want to get too big” Myth
One of my coaches once shared what a friend told him,
“I want to work out, but I don’t want to get too muscular.”
He laughed. Not because it wasn’t sincere, but because it reflected fear masquerading as wisdom.
That mindset shows up in business all the time.
“I want to grow… but not too fast.”
“I want to scale… but not too big.”
Sound familiar?
Business, like nature, is meant to grow—fully, boldly, and beautifully.
From Playing Safe to Playing Big
Dan Sullivan says it best:
“10X is Easier Than 2X.”
Why?
2X growth requires more hustle, more juggling, and more of the same.
10X growth demands transformation. You must think, act, and lead differently.
And when you decide to stop playing small—everything changes.
🔥 Five Areas That Shift When You Choose Growth
Your Thinking – You start seeing problems through a lens of possibility, not panic.
Your Innovation – You upgrade your offers to match the value you’re truly called to deliver.
Your Decision-Making – You move faster, with conviction, instead of hesitation.
Your Communication – Your message becomes more magnetic and mission-driven.
Your Actions – You stop shrinking. You step forward with clarity and consistency.
“Playing small is not humility—it’s disobedience when you’ve been called to lead.”
✨ Big Ideas to Take With You
✅ Big Idea 1: Playing small is protection masquerading as wisdom.
You shrink to avoid criticism, failure, or responsibility—but shrinking isn’t safe. It’s stagnant.
✅ Big Idea 2: Leadership isn’t about perfection—it’s about permission.
When you step into your authority, you give others permission to rise.
✅ Big Idea 3: Your vision requires a version of you that’s not led by fear.
This next season demands visibility, conviction, and consistency—even when it’s uncomfortable.
“Enlarge the place of your tent… do not hold back.” — Isaiah 54:2
🚀 So, What Now?
If you’ve ever asked yourself:
“What if I fail?”
“What if I lose control?”
“What if I’m not ready?”
Ask instead:
“What if I rise?”
“What if I’m the one who breaks the cycle?”
“What if the people I’m called to serve are waiting for me to show up?”
Your next level doesn’t need a new plan—it needs a new posture.
You were never meant to play small. You were meant to lead boldly.
And now's the time.
📬 Ready to Stop Playing Small?
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Let’s root deep.
Let’s reach wide.
Let’s build what outlives us.
— Carolette, The Mindset Mechanic
